* Ordine si curatenie
The Weight of Objects
In life, we tend to have an easier time acquiring possessions than we do
getting rid of them. Just as we harbor emotional baggage that is difficult to let go of, our lives can tend to be filled with material objects that we may feel compelled to hold on to. Most
people are not conscious of how much they own and how many of their possessions are no longer adding value to their life. They fiercely hold on to material objects because this makes them
feel secure or comfortable. While it's true that the ownership of "stuff" can make you feel good for awhile, it seldom satisfies the deep inner longings that nearly everyone has for
fulfillment and satisfaction. It is only when we are ready to let go of our baggage and be vulnerable that it becomes possible to recognize the emotional hold that our possessions can have on
us.
It's not uncommon to hold on to material objects because we are attached to them or fear the empty spaces that will remain if we get rid of them. Giving away the souvenirs from a beloved
voyage may feel like we are erasing the memory of that time in our life. We may also worry that our loved ones will feel hurt if we don't keep the gifts they've given us. It's easy to
convince ourselves that unused possessions might come in handy someday or that parting with them will cause you emotional pain. However, when your personal space is filled with objects, there
is no room for anything new to enter and stay in your life. Your collection of belongings may "protect" you from the uncertainties of an unknown future while keeping you stuck in the past.
Holding on to unnecessary possessions often goes hand in hand with holding on to pain, anger, and resentment, and letting go of your material possessions may help you release emotional
baggage.
When you make a conscious decision to fill your personal space with only the objects that you need or bring you joy, your energy level will soar. Clearing your personal space can lead to
mental clarity and an improved memory. As you learn to have a more practical and temporary relationship to objects, positive changes will happen, and you'll have space to create the life that
you desire.
* Increderea in sine
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
"Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do."
"Nothing builds self esteem and self confidence like accomplishment."
"Self esteem is the reputation we acquire with ourselves."
- Deepak Chopra
* Influenta cuvintelor
--Mother Teresa
* Prietenii conteaza
Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the
friends we choose.
--Tennessee Williams
* Psihosomatica
Feelings of gratitude release positive endorphins throughout the body,
creating health.
-- Sharon Huffman
* Fiecare are dreptatea lui
right." The problem: There are no obvious "wrongs" to avoid.
-- David Cottrell
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